Stop Trying To Impress Women – And Start Attracting Them

Attract women not impress them
Guys in general are scared of women whom they feel are superior to them. Most guys feel that because they are the men, that they should be able to do certain things for their women and on top of the list, it is providing financially for their women.

It is really the norm that they guy who drives the nicest car and has the most money will be able to pick up a girl at a chilling joint, than a guy who is unable to do those things. In places like News Cafe or Primi Bazala and the like, it is true that the guy with the fanciest ride and a fatter wallet is going to have an easier time attracting women, because they will already be impressed by him, because of what he is wearing and the fact that he can buy the drinks that they want.

A guy however can still have all the money in the world, but if he is being attracted to a woman whom he feels is on a higher platform than him, or has more money than him, most guys feel threatened and some will work even harder to impress the woman. This is exactly what may cause you to try too hard, which is always a bad idea as you  can end doing the wrong things that push her away.

Women see a guy who is nervous or scared of them a mile away and they might take advantage of that. Women in general are attracted to strong men who know what they want and who challenge them. So if you are going to bend over backwards because the woman intimidates you, you will appear as a guy who is boneless, and unless you are looking for casual relationships, you are not going to be able to have meaningful relationships with the women in your life.

If your idea of impressing a woman is giving her too much compliments, or agreeing with everything that comes out of her mouth, it really is not going to get you very far. You will definitely come across as weak and very boring. South African woman love fun guys, so if you do not have that element to bring to the table, you will be missing something huge that women are looking to have.

Let me spell something out for you – women are not going to be interested or attracted to boring weak men! If she does give you some time, it will only be a matter of time before she gets bored by you.

Guys are interested in sex, plain and simple. And women know that. Women know that the reason why you are trying to impress her is to ultimately get in and be able to sleep with her. And when you try too hard, that can be a turn off for the chicks because they already know what you want.

So, what is a guy to do?

You need to stop trying to impress her. What this means, is that you need to stop treating her like the hot chick that you are looking to sleep with. You should treat her like the ugly chicks, whom you are not trying to impress.

Hot chicks know how guys treat them, because almost every guy they meet is interested in them. Be different from the rest of the guys and treat her as normal as you possibly can.

If you do this, she will definitely take notice. You will be unlike any other guy she has met before.

An important part of treating her as normally as you possibly can is to make sure that you do not compliment on how beautiful she is. Be the intelligent guy that you are and challenge her.

If you can do this, you will have turned the table, and you will have a better chance impressing her and attracting her at the same time.


Online Adult Dating – You Can Find A Sexual Partner Online Anywhere In South Africa

Back in the day, when Gumtree South Africa used to have a section when a lot of people could hook up and get each other’s contact, it was quite easy to find someone who was interested in a casual relationship. Since they discontinued it, it has been difficult for most people who were using that service to meet a man or a woman online, who is interested in adult dating.

However, not all is lost. While most dating sites give you the impression that you will meet the love of your life, some dating sites understand that not everyone is looking for happily ever after. Such a site is ours right here.

Let’s face it, dating is supposed to be fun and enjoyable, and in our world where sex precedes marriage, it is quite acceptable for adults to be engaging in sex with who they want and when they want. Online Adult dating sites give all of us the opportunity to meet someone that we want to have fun with, without the trappings of a traditional relationship.

No longer do we have to go out to clubs or hangout places like News  Café or Kofee to meet someone, or for the elite, places like Zar. Online adult dating sites have made it much easier to meet someone online, who has a common goal like you, which is to have fun.

In a club or a bar, it is almost like you have to go through hoops just to try and figure out who is looking for a fun and casual relationship. In a dating site for adults, there is no guess work. The fact that they are there, and the pictures that they have on their profile make it very clear why they are there, so in essence you already know that everyone who is there is looking for what you are looking for.

The important thing here is to sign up for an adult online dating site that is reputable. With all types of people just being curious about things, that is exactly what you want to avoid. And let’s face it, when it comes to sexy online dating sites, there are a lot of weirdo’s out there. They too are looking to benefit and get what they can.

If you have browsed through some adult dating sites, you will notice that the pictures are very eye catching, and the names have also been given some thought. That is exactly what you need to stand out. Just picking a boring name like “Joburgstud” will not really get you noticed. You need something more.

Your profile obviously has to be very interesting, and your pictures are really what you are going to use to sell yourself. In your pictures, your best assets have to shine through, and you will be able to attract the best people on that dating site.

Joining an adult online dating site is the very first step to meeting likeminded people like you. No longer do you have to roam the streets at night in Joburg or wherever you are based in South Africa. Even if you are from a small town like Bloemfontein, you now have a chance find a sexual partner online, if you so desire.